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I think that the tendency toward envy must be hardwired into some people but not others. I have never understood why I should get upset when someone seems to be doing better than I am, as long as I am doing things that I understand and doing the best I can to the extent of my capabilities.

James Polyzoidis  WWC's avatar

I tend to draw a distinction between envy and jealousy. It’s a fine one. Jealousy truly is a caustic useless emotion. Envy on the other hand is (as you say) hard wired in us and can be used to energize healthy competition and progress. Without it civilization would not exist. But it is dangerous and ugly when it descends into jealousy (coveting thy neighbour’s wife or ass :-)). This is what Charlie (and the 10 commandments) warn us about.

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